You Don’t have to be pretty like her, you ARE Pretty!

You don’t have to be pretty like her- you Are pretty! You ARE WORTHY  Today as my husband and I were working on the second edition of our book, we got into a heated discussion. This discussion stemmed from my statement that the world in general can not see beauty beyond size.  We preach that stereotypes… Continue reading You Don’t have to be pretty like her, you ARE Pretty!


Stop fighting your body

Being sick sucks, there I said it. There are times I don’t handle being sick well. My way of coping is so hide how sick and tired I am of being sick and tired. When you have a chronic condition or for me, many chronic conditions, you don’t want to be that person. You don’t… Continue reading Stop fighting your body


I dare to self care…

I work hard on the relationship I have with myself. The way I speak and look at myself. Knowing what I give power to, has power over me. I have been known to be harsh on myself and to myself, so having a healthy relationship with myself is so important. When you are confronted with… Continue reading I dare to self care…


Scream in terror or enjoy the ride?

The past two weeks have been a roller coaster ride of emotions. From the beginning of Fashion Week when I walked into a scam, that ended in anger and tears to a sold out amazing show last weekend, that ended with a full heart and many opportunities. To ending this week with news I am… Continue reading Scream in terror or enjoy the ride?


I’m not a “conventional” Cancer Patient

I often get comments from people about how I choose to live my life while battling cancer. Some ask how I do it all? Some make comments about living my life to the fullest and taking chances, some even make snide and innapropriate comments that I don’t conventionally live as a cancer patient. Honesty I… Continue reading I’m not a “conventional” Cancer Patient

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Fabulous Friday

Happy Fabulous Friday!! This week I want to open up the conversation with this question... If the world was blind how many people would you impress? Let's take a moment and really let that question sink in, really sink in.  For me it took about 5 minutes of having a conversation with myself thinking of… Continue reading Fabulous Friday


The time for change is NOW!

Yesterday was truly a special day.  A former pageant sister of mine runs a local preliminary competition for the Miss New Hampshire America program. I was asked to be on the judges panel and sing the National Anthem.  This is the first time I had been back to sit in as a judge for the… Continue reading The time for change is NOW!


Authentically Uncrowned

I have been thinking about this article all week.  Going back and forth with my true feelings and those of a bruised ego.  When I started the journey of pageantry at a very young age it was all about the crown, the scholarship dollars and how I looked.  I would spend hours in the gym to be… Continue reading Authentically Uncrowned